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May. 2nd, 2009 @ 04:19 pm Sexism - of a sort
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I'm easily annoyed as anyone who's spent more than five minutes with me can attest.  I don't usually make it through an entire day without hearing or reading something that I consider an assault on reason and good sense.  On the whole however, at least in public forums, I usually find that someone smarter and more articulate than myself is already having a level-headed version of my reaction and I let it go -- possibly after a brief tirade for any unfortunate souls who happen to be with me at the time.  Yesterday was no different, except that on this particular subject there seem to be only a handful of dissenting voices.  So, I'll dissent quietly where no one will hear to make myself feel better. 

I heard a clip on the radio about the appointment of the new Poet Laureate of Britain: Carol Ann Duffy.  Evidently the first woman ever to hold the post.  I was mildly positive on that, as it seemed somewhat incredible that no women had been appointed in the 341 years Britain's been naming them. 

Now, I don't know anything about Ms. Duffy seeing as how I'm an American who doesn't read poetry.  So I had to take what the guest being interviewed, one Elaine Showalter -- professor of English emeritus at Princeton, said about her at face value.  Showalter made a point of her popularity (bestselling poet in the UK) as well the fact that she was bisexual.  I'm not sure what that last bit has to do with anything. I certainly look forward to the day when people can be appointed to things without anyone caring enough about their sexuality to point it out.  But I suppose the fact that she got appointed despite the fact that people felt the need to point it out is better than nothing. 

After admitting that she didn't know exactly how appointees were chosen, Showalter went on to state that "poet and woman, until now,  were seen as two contending categories."  I was a little confused that a Princeton professor, presumably informed ahead of time that she'd be questioned about this story, hadn't bothered to figure out how appointments to the post in question were chosen.  But government can be ineffable at times, so I shrugged it off.  I do have a hard time believing that Britain in the 90's (the most recent time a women was considered but not appointed) didn't think women could be poets.  They had a women commanding HM Naval Base Clyde, for example, home of the UK's nuclear-armed sub fleet.  Seriously, it was ok in the public eye for one to command a huge pile of WMDs but no-one felt they could write verse?

Showalter continued by pointing out that women had been passed over for the appointment in the distant past too.  Indicating that Elizabeth Barrot Browning had lost out to Tennyson.  To my mind, this was obviously a sexist choice since Tennyson was a complete hack who certainly didn't win out on his own merits.  Incidentally, I have to wonder if the fact that a woman's name was bandied about for the post in the 1800s doesn't go some distance towards refuting the claim that, until now, Britons didn't respect women as poets?

So I'm a little confused by the whole segment now...  Showalter went on, describing Duffy as being best known for her feminist poems.  In particular a late 90s work called The World's Wife -- "a selection of poems written from the point of view of the wives, and sometimes the mothers and the sisters of famous men."  The good professor continued: "It's wonderful, it's her most anti-male book in a kind of humorous way, but often in a darker way -- some of the poems suggest that it was the women who really came up with the ideas, others are somewhat more complex." 

At this point I'm a bit perturbed.  Now it bears repeating that I don't know anything about Ms. Duffys work.  The example they read was a quip about Darwin's wife commenting during a visit to the zoo that "something about that chimpanzee reminds me of you."  Humorous enough, and perhaps that's the angle Ms Duffy generally takes.  I don't know... but Prof. Showalter certainly elevates the idea that The World's Wife goes about attacking men and crediting women.

This vexes me.  If a public figure could say about a man that he was best know for his "most anti-woman" book in which he, humorously or otherwise, asserts that the achievements of women in history were actually traceable to their husbands; he'd likely be on his way out of office in disgrace certainly not enjoying his most recent national honor. 

Sexism is bullshit, there are rank upon rank of women who are smarter than me, faster than me, stronger, nobler, better.  And there are ranks and ranks of men who are too.  You don't cure slavery by encouraging former slaves to enslave someone else -- or any other nonsensical form of reversal.  Why is it ok to think we can rectify sexism by letting, even encouraging women insulting men?

 

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Nov. 18th, 2008 @ 02:52 am Insomniac Musing
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I couldn't sleep tonight. Work is piling up around me even as I slowly begin to accept that said work simply isn't going to continue earning me meaningful money in the current and foreseeable economy. Such thoughts breed laziness of the worst kind -- passivity when action is most needed. And passivity leads to navel gazing.  Tonight that means musing about my past and the emotional journey that has ended here. Fortunately I am mostly at peace with my past and musing about it eventually lead to enough interesting thoughts to compel me out of bed to write them down.  Something of a personal re-interpretation of the old cliche that forgiveness is the first step towards healing.  So here's what I've bought with the two hours of sleep I'll be sorely missing tomorrow:

"Time heals all wounds. I believe this because I have felt it in my own life; because I see the truth of it played out over and over again in countless stories fictional and real. The human mind adapts, gives itself hope, sees the bright side. It must do this because it is its purpose. Evolution has shaped it to go on, to endure, to forge ahead. But we obstruct this process by dwelling on our own pasts, by holding on to our sacred wounds. We hate and we tell ourselves that we do this because we revile injustice. But I have come to believe that this is a lie. Hate is like a drug. An emotional morphine that we take to ease the pain of our hurts. It is very effective, perhaps even necessary, but we pay a price for it to work its numbing magic upon us. Hate has a dark side that should not be ignored, I think now that hate itself wounds us. It pulls us into orbit around the object of our hate, locks our mind into a cycle -- forever replaying the moment that we were wronged. And in so doing it daily reopens the wound from which it sprang. Eventually we must let go of our hate, not because God wills it, nor because it is good for humanity, but for the very selfish reason that we ourselves can never heal while we hate."
Jun. 19th, 2007 @ 03:48 pm Still Cheap Version II
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Alright so the trip has gotten all turned around and complicated. I'm actually going to be sending one of the other guys to handle the business part and I'm going to try and do some sales work in the area instead while visiting with my father on their rescheduled trip to KC a week later. So... those of you who were willing to put me up for a few nights how does July 16-18 work? Lemme know. Also, it is possible I might be able to drive down Sunday and hang out for awhile (perhaps catch Gaia even?). Other than that I'll be pretty booked but it seems silly to go to KC and NOT see some folk. Lemme know what the situation looks like.
Apr. 11th, 2007 @ 10:20 pm Core Memory Dump
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This isn't for public consumption because it is full of holes, makes no sense whatsoever, tries to combine two unrelated subjects, and is generally inane in its current form. Just twenty minutes of me trying to get something on paper that hit me while I was driving home listening to NPR. It also isn't locked. If someone wants to give input, please do. Going up on LJ so I can edit it while camping (only access is on another person's comp, ie no storage.).

Dump )

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Mar. 17th, 2007 @ 05:34 pm Archive (ArchiverCompare)
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Mar. 2nd, 2007 @ 10:58 pm Submission to the VURD: Kanzeon
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I must call upon the VURD! I am trying desperately to find a nice necklace for a friend of mine. I would like to get a pendant of Kanzeon (Kannon, 観世音). Something nice in silver, gold, or platinum. Unfortunately I can't find anything to which I'd be willing to apply the word 'quality.' I've spent hours calling local jewelry stores, I've spent an additional hour googling. The former ended in a giant list of scratched out names, the latter returned a million $30 castings. I'll settle for a Kuan Yin that doesn't have any overtly Chinese imagery in it. Here's hoping this isn't an impossible quest (I don't Want to buy another Shane co. chunk of abstract pendantry)!
Mar. 2nd, 2007 @ 08:58 pm Err.
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I am under the impression that some number of the folks that read my journal are Democrats. I might be wrong in this assumption since left-of-center and D are not the same thing (hell, I'm LOC in many respects). If there are some Donkeys out there though, perhaps you can help me understand the "Employee Free Choice Act." Now I read this as job security I don't want. Because if it passes there are going to be a lot more people in the states in imminent danger of a beating. Now I'd just as soon keep fighting suicidal extremists and not union thugs, but a fist in the gut is a fist in the gut. So, what part of this am I missing that significant portions of the House think this is a good idea? Is it possible that all these Democrats are in union pockets?

I'm serious here, I'm not trying to pick a fight... I'm truly baffled. So will someone smarter than me please explain what I'm missing...cause Bush being the only politician to have an intelligent reaction to this might summon hell on Earth or otherwise break the universe.

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Feb. 24th, 2007 @ 07:33 pm Objectivist BS
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I've got a friend who's a fan of Fantasy Fiction. His major exposure has been The Sword of Truth series. He goes on, at great length, about all the things he likes in the series (it touches serious topics, it has insight, Richard is great, etc). So... I've been trying to expand his horizons with reading suggestions. the Rant. )
Feb. 24th, 2007 @ 03:46 pm long-winded and totally pointless, really.
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The current state of my Saturdays is a strange one. I've been working now for nearly a year at a job where Saturday is my busiest work day. I have classes to teach at 9, 10:30, 12, 1, 3:30, 5, and 7. I very often run the gym all day. And yet, I'm still in the habit of thinking of Saturdays as a good time to pursue things I wouldn't waste time on during the week. And thus we have Today's Post. Which provides the not-so-necessary run-up for Tonight's Post which has gnawed at me enough over the past week to seem worth actually typing now that it is Saturday. Today's Post. )
Feb. 3rd, 2007 @ 01:04 pm Trust, continued.
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This was going to be a comment on [info]triadruid's post -- here -- to those with access. But it is rather long and after the fact (I'm camping atm). So here it is:


I'm glad I live in a country where these things get talked about. I'm glad I live someplace where those with authority are accountable. I'm especially glad I live where a free media has the ABILITY to report these kinds of things.

That said, I rather wish they hadn't...and the hyping (see headline) and spin make me nauseous. Police get lied to, spit on, manipulated, harassed, and occasionally wounded and killed for a living. It isn't that great of a living at that. Some of them do it because they have some real sense of service. Some of them because they like the power. For most I expect it's a combination of the two. And that's just human nature. But it is a difficult and thankless job, mostly because people don't understand it. In situations like this you have to have policies (as 8elements mentioned) because otherwise an officer's first priority will, very rightly, be to protect themselves (in this case from manipulation, in a form I suspect they encounter a LOT). And really, policy is the level at which this should be addressed. The public and especially the media are so happy (and that's what sickens me, that I think they actually enjoy it) to blame police when they have no understanding of the realities of the job. It is easy to say "Well, hell in their place I would have immediately called for medical." Because your frame of reference is civilian. To you, that situation/declaration is out of the ordinary and demands a reaction. To someone who has to accomplish something in an atmosphere of criminal mischief, it is not. In their place you would get walked on by every third suspect you encountered, censored by your boss for excessive spending (it cost money to summon medics), and lack of productivity (it takes TIME to summon medical). You would wash out, or you would adapt. Their frame of mind may seem callous to us, but it is the only way they can ever hope do their job (a job, by the way that we rely on them to do). I wish they could be overtly compassionate, I wish they could respond to pleas the way a normal person would, but that simply isn't reality. Until you change human nature enough to stop criminals from being manipulative, you have to choose between cops trying to walk a difficult line or cops who can't do their jobs at all.

Did that difficult line get crossed? Maybe. Is there a policy solution to prevent this in the future? We should look into it. Do we punish our officers for putting a toe over a line that we ourselves demand that they try to walk on? I certainly hope not. Is this a one in a thousand thing that the media wants to make into a huge problem? Hell yes.

That said I don't think the jail guards are clean in this. Certainly, they have the same problems with manipulation, but that kind of time is enough for a reasonable (ie not spiteful-angry) person to re-access the situation a few thousand times. One of those times they should have acted differently.

To [info]triadruid: Being the man isn't the worst thing, at least you're involved. You're dealing with it and I know, when you have the chance, you try to improve what you see around you. It's so easy to sit back and pick at all the things you don't like. It's easy to prove that the man is corrupt, it's easy to hate the man. I don't respect that. Owning up to it and being willing to get close to it is much more worthy. Anyone who knows you, even a little, will have nothing but respect for that and anyone who sees it as a sellout are themselves unworthy, and no help to the cause.

So, keep your eyes on authority...because corruption is real and human nature is petty. But try to recognize that these people do a job you probably couldn't and it's a job you desperately need to have done. And if one case falls somewhere on a line that makes you uneasy, talk about, think about it, but don't overreact. Accepting reality is an often unpleasant choice, but is one we all have to make cause we just won't all fit in happy dreamland.